Stepping up with Sigma Chi

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I had the incredible honor of speaking to over 200 fraternity brothers at the University of Georgia on October 6th, and I continue to be amazed by the way young people are stepping up to support each other in regard to mental health.

Gordon had the privilege of speaking with this same group twice, thanks to Cooper Heath and his fraternity, Sigma Chi. They tragically lost one of their brothers, Sam L. Asbury, who died by suicide in 2020. Cooper, who Gordon coached on our first Atlanta Coyotes team, immediately bonded with Gordon as fellow defensemen. Cooper is truly one of the nicest young men you’ll ever meet—someone who always strives to do the right thing. While he still calls me "Coach" instead of "Lou," I’m proud to call him a friend.

When I spoke to the group, I shared two key messages:

  1. Gordon’s Story and the profound impact he had on so many lives.

  2. The importance of embracing Gordon’s motto: “Take Care of Your Crew.” Gordon believed passionately that we must always take care of each other—whether that’s family, co-workers, officials, coaches, teammates, or fraternity brothers. It’s about creating a community that looks out for one another, no matter the situation.

Being in front of this group of young men gave me hope that they will continue supporting each other through their mental health journeys. I was particularly inspired to see Cooper and his fraternity raise over $200,000 through their annual event, “The Fight Against Suicide.” This incredible event sees fraternity brothers train and step into the boxing ring to "Knockout Suicide," raising awareness and combating the stigma surrounding mental health and suicide.

To close my speech, I shared a few quotes with the group—words that I hope they’ll carry with them as they make decisions each day:

  • “Be yourself, everyone else is taken.” —Charles Schulz (Peanuts Creator)

  • “Be smart about being stupid.” —Coach Lou

  • “No one ever drowned in sweat.” —Lou Holtz (Famous Football Coach)

  • “Do your best, let God do the rest.” —Unknown

  • “It’s OK not to be OK.” —Gordon James Corsetti

I left UGA feeling hopeful and proud, knowing that this next generation is committed to breaking the silence around mental health and supporting each other, just as Gordon always encouraged.

Thank you Cooper and Sigma Chi for allowing me to be part of your Crew