Getting the Call!
/I was recently invited to the National Association of Sports Officials (NASO) by Charlie Obermayer, Gordon’s former boss, mentor, and friend. Charlie was scheduled to speak at the convention, where the topic of discussion was centered around Gordon, who had also spoken at the same convention four years ago in Seattle.
The theme of the event was "Getting the Call."
Suzanne Lowry, an experienced NCAA Volleyball Official, shared her story of receiving the call to officiate the largest Women’s Volleyball Match in history, held before 85,000 fans at the University of Nebraska. Her speech was filled with pride and humor, reflecting on the honor and responsibility of being chosen for such a prestigious assignment.
Dan Foxcroft, a seasoned veteran official of the Canadian Football League, spoke about his desire to retire on his own terms. After 22 seasons officiating in the league, he expressed his relief at not having to receive the dreaded call that it was time to hang up his whistle.
Doug Shows, a longtime men’s college basketball referee with five Final Four assignments, including two National Championship games, recounted a poignant moment. After officiating the Big Ten Championship, he was in the locker room feeling accomplished when he received a call from his daughter, informing him of her cancer diagnosis (thankfully, she is now okay).
Each of these speakers delivered dynamic and moving stories about receiving "the Call."
Then it was Charlie’s turn. He shared the story of getting the call from me on Saturday, December 3rd, while he was attending the NILOA (National Intercollegiate Lacrosse Officials Association) meeting with his good friend Kevin Forrester, one of Gordon’s dear friends and mentors. Charlie described how both he and Kevin broke down in tears as they shared the news with the attendees. According to Charlie, there wasn’t a dry eye in the room. Many of the officials present had been trained by Gordon, but more importantly, they were his friends and colleagues in the officiating world. Gordon’s influence extended far beyond his skill as an official—he left a lasting impression as a positive force in the lives of those around him.
As you know, Gordon is well-read and full of sayings and anecdotes, but his "Take Care of Your Crew" motto will resonate for generations. Thank you, Charlie, and to all who know our son and brother Gordon, for embodying the spirit of "Taking Care of Your Crew."
Please consider a donation to The Gordon Corsetti Mental Agility Foundation.
Kevin and Charlie
